A key point in this episode was the difference between:
- “integrators” (people who like or need spill-over between work and non-work
- versus “separators” (people who prefer to keep work and non-work separate… sometimes VERY separate)
An interesting example was how discussing various work-life benefits (telework, flex time, on-site daycare, etc.) is not effective for some colleagues… even those who could benefit greatly from these benefits… if their approach is fundamentally one of separation.
Conversely, respecting boundaries about work demands in off-hours generally is a good thing… but some people desire that integration… so measured feedback and appreciation is more useful…. than a critique about working early or late.
If you are interested, it was in the TED Work Life podcast for 18 April 2018 and titled “When Work Takes Over Your Life”.
If you do listen to this, or have read other work on this topic, please let me know… would be very interested to compare notes with you on this topic.
- Brian